Nico Löffler, who has autism, and podcast host Olli Schmidt
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Episode 47: Understanding Autism

What does autism mean in everyday life—and how does the diagnostic process actually work? In this podcast episode, Nico shares his personal experiences and explains what terms like neurodiversity, masking, and sensory overload really mean. The podcast offers practical insights into the symptoms, challenges, and support services related to the autism spectrum.

That's what this episode is about:

  • Neurodiversity and Neurotypical: An Overview of the Terms
  • Common Symptoms and Daily Coping Strategies for Autism
  • Masking, Overload, and Coping with Sensory Overload
  • Diagnosis: The Pathways and Challenges of Autism Diagnosis

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Excerpt from the Podcat interview with Nico Löffler:

Nico, what exactly is neurodiversity, and what does the term "neurotypical" mean?

Nico: The umbrella term "neurodiversity" refers to the fact that human brains function differently. There are neurotypical people—that is, the average. And then there are people whose neurology—that is, the way their brains function—differs slightly more. These people are called neurodivergent. This includes diagnoses such as autism or ADHD, for example.

What are the symptoms of autism?

Nico: Difficulty with change, a need for routine, a need for structure— , for example. It’s important to know that autism can occur with or without cognitive impairments. So you could say it affects all areas of intelligence.

It’s possible that someone has significant cognitive impairments and struggles as a result. But it’s also possible that someone has average or above-average intelligence and doesn’t really have any problems in their daily life—for example, with understanding things cognitively. That’s the case for me; I don’t have any cognitive impairments. Nevertheless, I face a lot of difficulties due to autism. These generally fall into the broad categories of communication, interaction, and repetitive behaviors.

You need to explain that briefly. It's repetitive.

Nico: Yes, "repetitive" means something that repeats itself. So , behaviors that are stereotypical— things that are done over and over again in the same way. For example, this includes having daily routines, because they provide a sense of security and are familiar, allowing you to plan your schedule precisely and minimizing your exposure to spontaneous changes.

But it also applies to special interests, for example. These are interests that are very intense and sometimes focus on very specific, niche topics. For me, for instance, it’s Harry Potter, or the universe—I find that totally fascinating too—and I can spend hours engrossed in it, to the point where I can lose myself in it and maybe even forget about important everyday matters for a while.

Are there any other symptoms that are important to consider when discussing autism?

Nico: Absolutely. So, of course, a major area is the social aspect—specifically, when it comes to communicating with other people. For example, when I try to use certain facial expressions and gestures myself, or when I try to recognize them in the person I’m talking to.

And then there’s interaction. That’s the ability to engage in back-and-forth conversations—conversations where people respond to one another. One person says something, the other person responds to it, and then the first person responds to that. These are exactly the kinds of things that people on the autism spectrum find difficult. 

Overwhelm, Overload, and Coping Strategies in Everyday Life. What Happens When It All Gets Too Much?

Nico: For example, when some people on the autism spectrum become so overstimulated that they experience what’s called an “overload.” This is sensory overload, where you become completely overwhelmed by the various environmental stimuli. Maybe people around you are talking really loudly, and then there’s a bright light, and then you catch a whiff of some unpleasant smell, and at some point it’s just too much. Then, under certain circumstances, you might experience a so-called overload, and your mind basically shuts down—you feel completely overwhelmed inside—and that can end up being a pretty rough experience.

What helps you in a moment like that?

Nico: The best thing would be to prevent that kind of overload. Make sure it doesn’t get to that point in the first place. Seek some space beforehand, maybe even warn the people around you and say, “This or that can quickly lead to me feeling overstimulated or overwhelmed.” I’ll make myself known and maybe step back. Small aids can also help, like headphones or sunglasses when there are stimuli. Then there’s the concept of “stimming”—which, by the way, also falls under these repetitive behaviors, these repetitive actions—where you do small things that stimulate the senses, but in a positive way.

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zero Business psychologist Vera Starker: "Hate is destructive - confidence is the exact opposite"

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Business psychologist Vera Starker on confidence

Vera Starker is certain that confidence can help us shape our lives and society in a positive way, especially in uncertain times. In this interview, the Spiegel bestselling author talks about how confidence can act as a formative force in our society. She shares personal experiences and gives impulses on how we can remain optimistic in times of crisis and actively bring about positive change.

For me, "being courageous" means acting despite fears

"Courage to be confident" is a very powerful title. What inspired you personally to write a book that deals intensively with this topic?

Vera Starker: I am a confident person by nature. But last year, I realized that all the negative news was increasingly sapping my energy. This led me to take a closer look at the topic of confidence on a scientific level. 

For me, "being courageous" means acting despite fears. And confidence is the key to finding this courage. At a time when we are confronted with many uncertainties, we need the confidence to embrace positive change and take action.

In your book, you emphasize the transformative power of confidence. How do you see the role of confidence as a shaping force in our society?

Confidence has the potential to keep us capable of acting, even in the midst of crises. It enables us not to remain powerless, but to actively seek solutions to solve complex problems. 

Especially in the future, in a world full of challenges, the power of confidence will be crucial in order to continuously adapt and enable positive change. Without confidence, all we can do is hesitate - with confidence, we can create.

In your opinion, what is the first step that each of us can take to actively bring about positive change?

It is important to recognize where we can actually make an impact. Confidence arises above all when we have the feeling that we can make a difference. We should focus on the areas where we can make a direct difference instead of being overwhelmed by things that are beyond our reach. 

The next step is to set realistic goals that match our skills. If we set ourselves goals that are too high and cannot be achieved, we lose our sense of effectiveness. The power of confidence lies in remaining capable of action and bringing about positive change in the areas over which we have influence.

Hate is destructive - confidence is the exact opposite

In one chapter of your book, you deal intensively with the topic of hate. How can we as a society learn to overcome hate and what role does confidence play in bringing about positive change?

Vera Starker: Hate is destructive - confidence is the exact opposite. We have to decide whether we react to hate or rely on confidence. Confidence means clearly recognizing challenges and then looking for opportunities to act - even if they seem small at first. 

It is crucial to surround yourself with people who also have a constructive attitude and strive for positive change. Cohesion creates a force that enables us to move in a positive direction as a society.

Was there a personal moment in your life when "courage to be confident" played a decisive role for you? If so, could you tell us more about it?

Vera Starker: Yes, in my youth I had some very challenging human experiences that presented me with a difficult decision: Should these events define my life or could I overcome them? 

I decided to overcome them, which made me realize that there is always a way - no matter how small it may seem. However, sometimes it takes great courage not to give up and to keep going. 

This moment taught me that confidence doesn't mean closing your eyes to problems, but finding the courage to carry on despite everything.

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