Why we love the way we love: Recognizing attachment patterns in couple relationships

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Why do we love the way we love? Our relationship patterns from childhood and experience have a profound influence on how we create closeness, overcome conflicts, and experience love.
Attachment patterns are the invisible routes that guide our love lives—shaped by early childhood experiences and emotional imprints. They influence how we allow closeness, deal with closeness, and react to relationship conflicts. This lecture provides you with in-depth knowledge about classic attachment styles (secure, insecure-ambivalent, insecure-avoidant) and shows you how to recognize your own patterns and those of your partner. With concrete strategies and practical examples, you will learn to consciously navigate these patterns—to resolve entanglements, strengthen connections, and create a more loving, secure partnership.

Booking status: free

Date: September 25, 2026

Event days: 1

Time: 12:00 - 13:00

Format: Lecture

Venue: virtual

Address: We will send you the access data in good time before the start of the event.

Contact: veranstaltungen-hamburg@familienservice.de

Booking number: VA_104514

Application deadline: 24.09.26

Costs: free of charge

Speaker: Mareike Neumann

Medium: Internet

Subject area: Partnership

Target groups: Employees of the contractual partners

Notes: The event will take place via Zoom, will be recorded, and will be available to you for 4 weeks afterward.

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