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When are you considered overindebted?

You often only realize how quickly you can end up in the red when your account is already in the red and the outstanding bills are piling up on the kitchen table. If you wait too long to pay off your debts, it's almost impossible to get out of the debt spiral without outside help.

When am I in debt? What is over-indebtedness?

If you have taken out a loan and repay the installments on time, this is not a precarious situation. You may be in debt, but your livelihood is not at risk.

However, if you are unable to pay the agreed installments, this is referred to as over-indebtedness - i.e. whenever, after deducting rent, electricity and the costs of daily living, the remaining money is permanently insufficient to meet further payment obligations.

If this happens, you should react quickly and visit a debt advice center. If you don't do this and more and more debts accumulate, there is the threat of reminder proceedings and compulsory enforcement.

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Over-indebted through no fault of your own: Unemployment, divorce, illness

Over-indebtedness can occur completely "through no fault of your own". The "classic" reason is sudden unemployment. But divorce and separation are also among the most frequently cited reasons why people are suddenly no longer able to support themselves.

Especially after a divorce, alimony payments can take a heavy toll, and monthly payments to former partners and for shared children can quickly add up to costs that are difficult to control. However, long-term and serious illnesses are also cited as causes of excessive debt.

 

Young people often have money problems

Careless and too relaxed handling of money often leads to ending up in the red. Young people in particular have money problems.

In 2024, a total of 5.67 million people in Germany were overindebted. This represents an increase of 111,000 cases compared to 2023. Since 2016 (the last significant increase), the number of overindebted people had been on a downward trend, which is why these new developments are cause for concern.
People in the 30–39 age group are the most indebted. 

But people between the ages of 20 and 25 also sought debt counseling in 2016. On average, they had about 7,500 euros in debt, according to the Federal Statistical Office (Statistics on Over-Indebtedness Among Private Individuals, 2017). For many young people, their outstanding cell phone bills alone amount to several times their monthly income.

The cause of excessive debt among young people is particularly alarming. While adults typically accumulate more and more debt due to unemployment, separation, or illness, the cause among young people is “poor financial management.” In other words: They simply consume too much. Gym memberships, subscriptions, online clothing purchases, spending money on video games, and “buy now, pay later” offers—which are nothing more than mini-loans—are particularly appealing and therefore especially dangerous: Very few young people are prepared to handle money.

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How can I avoid debt?

Once a person or household has fallen into over-indebtedness, it is difficult to get out of the debt spiral again. At some point, more and more bills and reminders start arriving. Creditors, debt collection agencies and bailiffs try to collect money.

It is best to take the initiative as soon as you notice that you are slipping further and further into the red and can no longer pay outstanding bills:

  • A budget book helps you to get a better overview of your monthly income and expenditure.
  • Think about where you can cut back on expenses (e.g., eating out less often or skipping your daily coffee to go, taking a two-week vacation instead of a three-week one), and check whether you still need certain contracts, insurance policies, and subscriptions, etc.
  • Seek out a debt counseling center that will help you identify the causes and reasons for your debt, work with you to create a budget plan and develop a strategy to gradually reduce your debt.

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It is best to speak to a well-trained income and budget advisor to find out whether this is really feasible and the right path for you.

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FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions About Excessive Debt

When are you considered overindebted?

You are considered to be in debt when, after paying rent, electricity, and daily living expenses, you consistently do not have enough money left to cover your ongoing obligations. Payment reminders or regularly unpaid bills are early warning signs that you should address immediately.

What is the difference between debt and excessive debt?

Being in debt means that you have loans or obligations that are being repaid on schedule. Over-indebtedness occurs when you are no longer able to make payments on a long-term basis. 

What are the typical causes of excessive debt?

Common causes of excessive debt include sudden unemployment, separation or divorce, and prolonged illness; among young people, uncontrolled spending (subscriptions, “buy now, pay later” services, and in-app purchases) is a frequent cause. 

How can I prevent excessive debt?

Keep a household budget for two to three months to track your income and expenses and identify any potential cash flow shortfall. It’s helpful to build up an emergency fund (equivalent to two to three months’ salary), review your contracts and subscriptions regularly, cancel any unnecessary ones, and set up automatic savings contributions.

What immediate steps can you take when payment problems arise?

As soon as payment difficulties become apparent, you should prioritize essential payments such as rent and utilities, contact creditors early on to request installment or deferral agreements, and review recurring payments to cancel any unnecessary recurring expenses. Keep track of collection letters and note deadlines so you can respond in a timely manner before legal action is taken.

When and how should I seek professional debt counseling?

Seek professional debt counseling as soon as you notice a persistent shortfall in your household budget, receive payment reminders or collection notices, or face the threat of foreclosure. Prepare all relevant documents for your counseling appointment—bank statements, proof of income, rental agreement, payment reminders, loan agreements, and a list of current subscriptions—as this will speed up the analysis and enable concrete negotiation strategies with creditors.

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Young people largely adhere to the corona measures

Young people are better than their reputation. The SINUS Youth Study 2020 has shown that, for the most part, young people are complying with the coronavirus measures and acting responsibly. In the vast majority of cases, they are prepared to cut back when it comes to their lifestyle, meetings with friends and other things that were once taken for granted. They usually do this out of a sense of responsibility for their fellow human beings, be it their own family, older people around them or society as a whole.

 

Corona and puberty are a toxic combination

In times of corona, the life of an adolescent is particularly difficult, because corona and puberty are a toxic combination! This developmental phase is all about gaining autonomy, setting yourself apart from your parents and developing your own rules. But corona is throwing a spanner in the works: instead of finding their own way, they have to be with their parents all the time because of the lockdown - even though they are actually only interested in their friends.

pme parent advisor Kyra Wetzel also emphasizes that the lack of social contact is particularly difficult for young people. For young people, the peer group, together with the family, is the most important pillar in their lives. They miss their freedom and the ease of life. Every day is the same, there is little variety. This fosters a feeling of loneliness and a loss of impartiality. What's more, control and restrictions are particularly annoying at this age. However, it is precisely now that parents have to take responsibility for the coronavirus-related restrictions imposed on their children.

Conflicts in the family increase during the coronavirus crisis Kyra Wetzel reports that conflicts in families have increased during the coronavirus period. Families are spending much more time together. Added to this are the excessive demands and stress caused by homeschooling and working from home. The lack of variety in everyday life exacerbates the situation. The family is completely thrown back on itself. Conflicts that you might have been able to avoid before now escalate much more easily and new ones arise. This takes its toll, as all family members are under a lot of stress and frustration in their own way, and nerves are understandably often frayed.

 

Anxiety, depression and eating disorders as consequences of corona

The lack of structure provided by school in particular also has an impact. Developmental neuropsychologist Anja Karlmeier from the Bodelschwingh Foundation Bethel emphasizes that the brain development of children and young people is inextricably linked to their social and societal development, i.e. the opportunities they have to develop in family, school and leisure time. The school closures and contact restrictions therefore have direct consequences.

The COPSY (Corona and Psyche) study by the University Medical Center Hamburg-Eppendorf shows that more than 70% of the children and adolescents surveyed feel emotionally burdened by the corona crisis. This is reflected in anxiety, stress and depression, among other things. Psychosomatic clinics are currently receiving an increasing number of adolescents who are struggling with eating disorders, anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorders. There are young people who are becoming more and more withdrawn and hardly leave the house or react with obsessive-compulsive disorders such as excessive hand washing. As paradoxical as it sounds, this is an attempt to regain control.

 

Media consumption by young people in lockdown

So young people suffer immensely in these times. But how do parents deal with this situation when the potential for conflict is already high? How do you organize family life? And should rules on media consumption etc. be maintained or should the leash be loosened?

Kyra Wetzel advises deciding together with the family when to have a media-free time. An outright ban or strict rules will lead to more conflict in most cases. Not all media consumption is the same. A distinction must be made between leisure, learning and information consumption. Young people have a right to participate in cultural life and a right to access the media. Parents should therefore carefully consider how much time their children are allowed to spend in their alternative media environment.
As parents, you should also offer alternatives. This could be a walk together, a games evening or cooking together. And: As parents, be a role model and pay attention to how you use digital media yourself. Clear agreements made together strengthen the relationship and trust between parents and young people and prevent conflicts.

The coronavirus pandemic and all the resulting measures affect us all. However, it is necessary to take a special look at the next generation, who should be setting the course for a successful adult life right now. This precious time is characterized by isolation, loneliness and restrictions due to the coronavirus crisis. The young people of today are the backbone of our society and the decision-makers of tomorrow. They should therefore have the best possible conditions to develop well.

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Sources:

https://www.barmer.de/gesundheit-verstehen/coronavirus/sinus-studie-corona-248390


https://www.zeit.de/gesellschaft/familie/2020-07/kinder-corona-krise-psychische-folgen-entwicklungspsychologie


https://www.uke.de/kliniken-institute/kliniken/kinder-und-jugendpsychiatrie-psychotherapie-und-psychosomatik/forschung/arbeitsgruppen/child-public-health/forschung/copsy-studie.html