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Finance & Law

How much will my first apartment cost?

Finally moving into your first apartment! But this newfound freedom comes with financial challenges. As an apprentice or student, your bank account usually isn’t exactly overflowing. To make sure your dream of having a place of your own doesn’t turn into a financial nightmare, we’ve put together a list of all the important costs and money-saving tips for you.​​​​​​​

​​​​​​​Text: Stephanie Bartsch, Karin Lohse, Income and Budget Counseling

What do I need to keep in mind before moving out of or into my first apartment?

Before you start looking for your first apartment, here are a few things to keep in mind:

  • Build up a financial cushion: If possible, stay at home for another half year and set aside money specifically for this purpose. That way, you’ll start out with a cushion to cover your security deposit and initial furniture purchases.
  • Household Check: Learn from your parents how to manage expenses and run a household. That’s the best way to prepare for real life.​​​​​​​

What should I look for in a lease agreement?

The first rule of thumb is: Don't sign anything you don't understand! Lease agreements often contain complex clauses. You can also ask the landlord if you can take the lease home with you for a day.

Check whether the rental agreement contains the following important information:

  • Are all ancillary costs listed?
  • Is the amount of the deposit noted?
  • Have all the tenants' names been entered?
  • Is there a written handover protocol?
  • How long is the notice period?

Base Rent vs. All-Inclusive Rent

The base rent is just the starting point. Add a flat rate of about 2 euros per square meter for utilities (electricity, heat, water, trash collection) on top of that.

Security deposit

The landlord may require a security deposit of up to three months' rent (excluding utilities) . If everything goes smoothly when you move out, you'll get your money back.

Handover Report

Make a written note of every crack in the sink and every scratch on the hardwood floor so you won't be held liable for them when you move out.

Notice Period

This is usually three months— be sure to factor that into your future plans. Also important: The three-month notice period applies to your landlord as well.

 

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First Apartment: Where Can I Find Financial Assistance?

Vocational Training Grant (BAB)

Apprentices can apply for vocational training assistance (BAB). You can find an overview here at Sparkasse: Financial Support for Apprentices

BAföG

If you're a college student, you can apply for BAföG. Information about BAföG: Apply for BAföG online

Grant to Help Students Get Started

If you are starting your first degree program and are under 25 years of age, you can receivea one-time “Studienstarthilfe” grant of 1,000 eurosfrom the BAföG office.

  • Requirement: In the month before you began your studies, you received certain social benefits (e.g., Bürgergeld, housing allowance, or child supplement).
  • Application: Digital applications only via the BAföG Digital portal.

Am I eligible for housing assistance?

You must apply for housing benefit at the housing benefit office of the municipality in which your home is located.

As an apprentice , however, you’ll usually only receive housing assistance in exceptional cases (e.g., if you’re pursuing a second apprenticeship or a profession not recognized by the state, such as a yoga instructor or typesetter).

In addition, you must be of legal age and provide proof that you are responsible for covering the costs of the apartment on your own.

You can find everything you need to know about housing assistance in this article: How do I apply for housing assistance?

Where can I apply for rent assistance as an apprentice?

The good news is: Under certain conditions, as an apprentice, you can apply to the local government office for additional rent subsidies, especially if you're under 25 and can no longer live with your parents (e.g., because of the distance to your training site).

Rent Assistance Checklist:

  • You are receiving BAB or BAB has been rejected because your income is too high.
  • The BAB rent allowance does not cover your heating and rent costs.
  • You no longer live at home.
  • Before you moved out of your parents' home, you applied for a rent subsidy from the office responsible for ALG II and received permission to move out.
  • Your apartment is reasonable in terms of size and price. Otherwise, you will only receive the rent subsidy that corresponds to a reasonable apartment.

When will I receive a housing allowance?

If you are under 25 years old and no longer live with your parents, you may be eligible for a housing allowance only if it would be unreasonable for you to move back in with them.

This applies, for example, if your place of training is far away or if there are serious social reasons justifying your move.
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The "Hidden" Fixed Costs

In addition to rent, there are costs that many people underestimate:

  • Electricity & Internet: Look specifically for bundled plans, but pay attention to the contract terms (often 24 months).
  • Broadcasting License Fee (GEZ): It amounts to 18.36 euros per household. Important: If you receive BAföG or BAB, you can apply for an exemption! In a shared apartment, only one person has to pay—if everyone is exempt, no one pays.
  • Insurance: Personal liability insurance is a must. Check to see if you're still covered under your parents' family insurance policy.
  • Transportation: Don't forget the cost of the monthly pass or your car.

Application for exemption from the broadcasting fee

Other costs you should expect

In addition to rental costs, there are other costs that you should take into account in your financial planning.

For example for:

  • Furniture, home furnishings, and items such as pans, towels, glasses, and hair dryers
  • Internet and cell phone costs
  • Costs for groceries and other items such as contact lenses, clothing, and haircuts

To get a good overview of what’s known as the cost of living—the additional monthly expenses on top of rent and other costs—it’s a good idea to keep some kind of household budget .

Furnishing Your First Apartment in a Sustainable and Affordable Way

Your first apartment doesn't have to be a catalog home.

  • Secondhand: You can find affordable furniture and kitchenware (pans, glasses, etc.) on kleinanzeigen.de, at flea markets, or in thrift stores. With a little creativity, you can even give bulky trash items a sustainable new lease on life.
  • Set priorities: Think carefully about what you need right away and what can wait.

Keep an eye on costs with a budget book

To avoid ending up in the red at the end of the month, a household budget book is essential—whether it’s the traditional paper version or an app (e.g., “Mein Haushaltsbuch” or “Moneon Haushaltsbuch”).

If you track your spending on groceries, leisure activities, and subscriptions, you'll automatically save money.

Bonus Tip for Filing Your Tax Return: Even if you're an apprentice or a student, it's worth filing a tax return. Travel expenses and work equipment (laptop, tablet) can often be claimed as tax deductions.

What do I need to keep in mind after moving?

As soon as you move, you must update your registration with the Residents' Registration Office () . You generally have two weeks to do so. If you forget, you risk a fine of up to 1,000 euros.

​​​​​​​Income and Budget Counseling

As a comprehensive EAP provider, pme Familienservice offers Familienservice in all situations—from psychosocial counseling and leadership development to income and budget counseling.

If you want to empower your employees in the long term, learn more here about the services offered by pme Familienservice how we can provide personalized support.
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zero Vacation for family caregivers: how it works

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Age & care

Vacation for family caregivers? This is how it works!

Many family caregivers would like to take a break now and then—perhaps for a vacation, when they’re sick, or simply to recharge. But what happens to the caregiving during that time?

The good news: Long-term care insurance supports family caregivers when they are temporarily unable to provide care. Benefits are available to help arrange substitute care at home or temporary care in a long-term care facility.
Since the 2025 long-term care reform, these benefits canbe used with greater flexibility.

Organizing respite care at home 

If family caregivers are unable to provide care—for example, due to vacation, illness, or other commitments—another person can temporarily take over the caregiving duties. This service is called respite care. Care can continue to be provided in the person’s own home . Various forms of support are available:

  • Care provided by family members (restrictions for close relatives).
  • Support from friends, neighbors, or other people you know well.
  • Use of an outpatient nursing service.
  • A team of several helpers.

Respite care can be arranged on an hourly basis (less than 8 hours per day), on a daily basis, or for several weeks (more than 8 hours per day).

Good to know!

For close relatives up to the second degree of kinship, the long-term care insurance fund reimburses twice the amount of the care allowance, but not the annual respite care budget.

Temporary care in a nursing facility (short-term care)

Sometimes it makes more sense for the person in need of care to be temporarily cared for in a facility. This is the case, for example, when

  • when family caregivers go on longer trips,
  • more extensive care is needed,
  • home care is temporarily not possible.

In such cases, the person in need of care can be placed in a nursing home with short-term care beds for a limited period of time.

In addition to nursing care, short-term care often provides social activities and structure in daily life. Many families also use it as an opportunity to get to know an inpatient facility without any obligation.

Who is eligible for respite care and short-term care?

People in need of care who have been assigned at least care level 2 and who are primarily cared for at home are eligible for respite care and short-term care.

Applications for benefits on behalf of the person in need of care are submitted to the relevant long-term care insurance fund.

Important to know!

There is no longer a specific minimum duration requirement for home care. In principle, these benefits can be accessed as soon as the recipient is classified at care level 2 or higher and the care is primarily organized privately.

How much is the relief budget?

Since July 2025, there has been a single annual respite care budget for respite and short-term care. Those in need of care have up to 3,539 euros per calendar year available for this purpose. This budget can be used flexibly, for example:

  • fully covered for respite care,
  • fully covered for short-term care,
  • combined for both services.

Both respite care and short-term care can be utilized for up to eight weeks per year . However, the actual duration of these services depends on how quickly the shared budget is exhausted.

Important to know!

In the case of daily respite care (8 hours or more per day, e.g., when the caregiver is on vacation), the care allowance is reduced to 50%, except on the first and last days of the absence.

For hourly respite care (less than 8 hours per day, e.g., for an afternoon yoga class), the care allowance continues to be paid in full. In the latter case, the joint respite care budget of €3,539 can be spread out over the entire year.

What should you keep in mind when planning a vacation?

When planning a vacation , it’s a good idea to think counter-cyclically: Most Germans take their vacations during the summer and Christmas breaks. As a result, care services and short-term care facilities have limited capacity during these periods. It’s easier to find alternative care options outside of the vacation seasons.

"I highly recommend that all caregivers take advantage of this budget provided by the long-term care insurance fund to give themselves a break. It allows you to recharge your batteries and step back from the daily routine of caregiving. For those in need of care, respite care or short-term care is often an interesting and enriching experience as well. Short-term care, in particular, is an ideal way to get a feel for living in a care facility for a short time, with no obligation." Jürgen Griesbeck, Product Manager for Homecare and Eldercare, pme Familienservice

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