Nico Löffler, who has autism, and podcast host Olli Schmidt
Psyche

Episode 47: Understanding Autism

What does autism mean in everyday life—and how does the diagnostic process actually work? In this podcast episode, Nico shares his personal experiences and explains what terms like neurodiversity, masking, and sensory overload really mean. The podcast offers practical insights into the symptoms, challenges, and support services related to the autism spectrum.

That's what this episode is about:

  • Neurodiversity and Neurotypical: An Overview of the Terms
  • Common Symptoms and Daily Coping Strategies for Autism
  • Masking, Overload, and Coping with Sensory Overload
  • Diagnosis: The Pathways and Challenges of Autism Diagnosis

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Excerpt from the Podcat interview with Nico Löffler:

Nico, what exactly is neurodiversity, and what does the term "neurotypical" mean?

Nico: The umbrella term "neurodiversity" refers to the fact that human brains function differently. There are neurotypical people—that is, the average. And then there are people whose neurology—that is, the way their brains function—differs slightly more. These people are called neurodivergent. This includes diagnoses such as autism or ADHD, for example.

What are the symptoms of autism?

Nico: Difficulty with change, a need for routine, a need for structure— , for example. It’s important to know that autism can occur with or without cognitive impairments. So you could say it affects all areas of intelligence.

It’s possible that someone has significant cognitive impairments and struggles as a result. But it’s also possible that someone has average or above-average intelligence and doesn’t really have any problems in their daily life—for example, with understanding things cognitively. That’s the case for me; I don’t have any cognitive impairments. Nevertheless, I face a lot of difficulties due to autism. These generally fall into the broad categories of communication, interaction, and repetitive behaviors.

You need to explain that briefly. It's repetitive.

Nico: Yes, "repetitive" means something that repeats itself. So , behaviors that are stereotypical— things that are done over and over again in the same way. For example, this includes having daily routines, because they provide a sense of security and are familiar, allowing you to plan your schedule precisely and minimizing your exposure to spontaneous changes.

But it also applies to special interests, for example. These are interests that are very intense and sometimes focus on very specific, niche topics. For me, for instance, it’s Harry Potter, or the universe—I find that totally fascinating too—and I can spend hours engrossed in it, to the point where I can lose myself in it and maybe even forget about important everyday matters for a while.

Are there any other symptoms that are important to consider when discussing autism?

Nico: Absolutely. So, of course, a major area is the social aspect—specifically, when it comes to communicating with other people. For example, when I try to use certain facial expressions and gestures myself, or when I try to recognize them in the person I’m talking to.

And then there’s interaction. That’s the ability to engage in back-and-forth conversations—conversations where people respond to one another. One person says something, the other person responds to it, and then the first person responds to that. These are exactly the kinds of things that people on the autism spectrum find difficult. 

Overwhelm, Overload, and Coping Strategies in Everyday Life. What Happens When It All Gets Too Much?

Nico: For example, when some people on the autism spectrum become so overstimulated that they experience what’s called an “overload.” This is sensory overload, where you become completely overwhelmed by the various environmental stimuli. Maybe people around you are talking really loudly, and then there’s a bright light, and then you catch a whiff of some unpleasant smell, and at some point it’s just too much. Then, under certain circumstances, you might experience a so-called overload, and your mind basically shuts down—you feel completely overwhelmed inside—and that can end up being a pretty rough experience.

What helps you in a moment like that?

Nico: The best thing would be to prevent that kind of overload. Make sure it doesn’t get to that point in the first place. Seek some space beforehand, maybe even warn the people around you and say, “This or that can quickly lead to me feeling overstimulated or overwhelmed.” I’ll make myself known and maybe step back. Small aids can also help, like headphones or sunglasses when there are stimuli. Then there’s the concept of “stimming”—which, by the way, also falls under these repetitive behaviors, these repetitive actions—where you do small things that stimulate the senses, but in a positive way.

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zero Interview with communications expert Karin Kuschik

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Tips & Tricks

Karin Kuschik: How clear words make life easier

Using words to get through life with confidence - that is the motto of Karin Kuschik, communication expert and bestselling author. In her books and coaching sessions, she shows how individual sentences and the right attitude can make everyday life much easier, whether at work or at home. We spoke to her about the power of language, typical pitfalls in dealing with others and her mission.

"Sometimes a single word is enough to appear confident"

1. you write about sentences that make life easier - what exactly is behind them?

Karin Kuschik: Exactly that. A treasure chest full of phrases that you can use in the business jungle and also privately - with friends, family or strangers. Many of my clients report interpersonal issues that feel huge and yet can be resolved quickly if you have the right attitude and know the right tools. I provide both in my books. Because a lot has come together in 25 years as a coach.

2 What inspired you to focus on the power of individual formulations?

My love of language and the desperation of my clients. I love quick solutions - shortcuts, so to speak. Sometimes a single word is enough to appear confident, for example: "I understand you very well AND I see things differently". Or a well-phrased sentence to set boundaries, such as: "I'm sorry if I've given you the impression that you can talk to me like that!".

These sentences remind us that we are always the pilot or captain of our own lives. We decide what we think and feel and how we act.

3 Why are clear, well-chosen words so important in everyday life?

Language is our means of expression and we are always listening to ourselves - like an inner dialog, so to speak. If we constantly say "I still have to ...", we feel under pressure. If we use clear, positive language instead, we come across as such. For example: "This is not a problem, it's not the first time we've done this" or "We've practiced at this, we're good at it". That makes a huge difference.

"My favorite motto: Be realistic. Expect miracles"

4. are there situations in which many people struggle with words?

Yes, especially when it comes to setting yourself apart charmingly, clearly and calmly. Many people only know extremes: swallow everything or get loud. If you don't want to come across as bossy, you often put up with too much - and then come across as snippy, which doesn't go down well.

A lack of boundaries is a classic women's issue: between macho and girl, the girl role is often chosen because the alternative doesn't fit. My work helps to find the golden mean in a relaxed way.

5 What is your mission with your work?

Ease, clarity, sovereignty. Many readers and listeners report: "I did it, it worked, it was easier than I thought". It's rarely the circumstances themselves that upset us, but the way we look at them. And who upsets us is ultimately up to us.

6. in conclusion - a sentence you would like to pass on to our readers?

Be nice to yourself and don't immediately accept a no. See it as a conversation starter, as an offer. Many things are not as they seem. What was impossible yesterday may miraculously work out today. Reality is always negotiable. My favorite motto: Be realistic. Expect miracles.