Karin Kuschik: How clear words make life easier
Using words to get through life with confidence - that is the motto of Karin Kuschik, communication expert and bestselling author. In her books and coaching sessions, she shows how individual sentences and the right attitude can make everyday life much easier, whether at work or at home. We spoke to her about the power of language, typical pitfalls in dealing with others and her mission.
"Sometimes a single word is enough to appear confident"
1. you write about sentences that make life easier - what exactly is behind them?
Karin Kuschik: Exactly that. A treasure chest full of phrases that you can use in the business jungle and also privately - with friends, family or strangers. Many of my clients report interpersonal issues that feel huge and yet can be resolved quickly if you have the right attitude and know the right tools. I provide both in my books. Because a lot has come together in 25 years as a coach.
2 What inspired you to focus on the power of individual formulations?
My love of language and the desperation of my clients. I love quick solutions - shortcuts, so to speak. Sometimes a single word is enough to appear confident, for example: "I understand you very well AND I see things differently". Or a well-phrased sentence to set boundaries, such as: "I'm sorry if I've given you the impression that you can talk to me like that!".
These sentences remind us that we are always the pilot or captain of our own lives. We decide what we think and feel and how we act.
3 Why are clear, well-chosen words so important in everyday life?
Language is our means of expression and we are always listening to ourselves - like an inner dialog, so to speak. If we constantly say "I still have to ...", we feel under pressure. If we use clear, positive language instead, we come across as such. For example: "This is not a problem, it's not the first time we've done this" or "We've practiced at this, we're good at it". That makes a huge difference.
"My favorite motto: Be realistic. Expect miracles"
4. are there situations in which many people struggle with words?
Yes, especially when it comes to setting yourself apart charmingly, clearly and calmly. Many people only know extremes: swallow everything or get loud. If you don't want to come across as bossy, you often put up with too much - and then come across as snippy, which doesn't go down well.
A lack of boundaries is a classic women's issue: between macho and girl, the girl role is often chosen because the alternative doesn't fit. My work helps to find the golden mean in a relaxed way.
For customers of pme Familienservice , coach and bestselling author Karin Kuschik will be presenting on 10.12.2025 from 19:00 to 20:30 in the exclusive webinar "5 sentences that make life easier" before. She will show you how to communicate more confidently, set better boundaries and remain more relaxed in conversations. Her motto "I still decide who annoys me" stands for self-management in everyday life and in business.
5 What is your mission with your work?
Ease, clarity, sovereignty. Many readers and listeners report: "I did it, it worked, it was easier than I thought". It's rarely the circumstances themselves that upset us, but the way we look at them. And who upsets us is ultimately up to us.
6. in conclusion - a sentence you would like to pass on to our readers?
Be nice to yourself and don't immediately accept a no. See it as a conversation starter, as an offer. Many things are not as they seem. What was impossible yesterday may miraculously work out today. Reality is always negotiable. My favorite motto: Be realistic. Expect miracles.
