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How much will my first apartment cost?

Finally moving into your first apartment! But this newfound freedom comes with financial challenges. As an apprentice or student, your bank account usually isn’t exactly overflowing. To make sure your dream of having a place of your own doesn’t turn into a financial nightmare, we’ve put together a list of all the important costs and money-saving tips for you.​​​​​​​

​​​​​​​Text: Stephanie Bartsch, Karin Lohse, Income and Budget Counseling

What do I need to keep in mind before moving out of or into my first apartment?

Before you start looking for your first apartment, here are a few things to keep in mind:

  • Build up a financial cushion: If possible, stay at home for another half year and set aside money specifically for this purpose. That way, you’ll start out with a cushion to cover your security deposit and initial furniture purchases.
  • Household Check: Learn from your parents how to manage expenses and run a household. That’s the best way to prepare for real life.​​​​​​​

What should I look for in a lease agreement?

The first rule of thumb is: Don't sign anything you don't understand! Lease agreements often contain complex clauses. You can also ask the landlord if you can take the lease home with you for a day.

Check whether the rental agreement contains the following important information:

  • Are all ancillary costs listed?
  • Is the amount of the deposit noted?
  • Have all the tenants' names been entered?
  • Is there a written handover protocol?
  • How long is the notice period?

Base Rent vs. All-Inclusive Rent

The base rent is just the starting point. Add a flat rate of about 2 euros per square meter for utilities (electricity, heat, water, trash collection) on top of that.

Security deposit

The landlord may require a security deposit of up to three months' rent (excluding utilities) . If everything goes smoothly when you move out, you'll get your money back.

Handover Report

Make a written note of every crack in the sink and every scratch on the hardwood floor so you won't be held liable for them when you move out.

Notice Period

This is usually three months— be sure to factor that into your future plans. Also important: The three-month notice period applies to your landlord as well.

 

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First Apartment: Where Can I Find Financial Assistance?

Vocational Training Grant (BAB)

Apprentices can apply for vocational training assistance (BAB). You can find an overview here at Sparkasse: Financial Support for Apprentices

BAföG

If you're a college student, you can apply for BAföG. Information about BAföG: Apply for BAföG online

Grant to Help Students Get Started

If you are starting your first degree program and are under 25 years of age, you can receivea one-time “Studienstarthilfe” grant of 1,000 eurosfrom the BAföG office.

  • Requirement: In the month before you began your studies, you received certain social benefits (e.g., Bürgergeld, housing allowance, or child supplement).
  • Application: Digital applications only via the BAföG Digital portal.

Am I eligible for housing assistance?

You must apply for housing benefit at the housing benefit office of the municipality in which your home is located.

As an apprentice , however, you’ll usually only receive housing assistance in exceptional cases (e.g., if you’re pursuing a second apprenticeship or a profession not recognized by the state, such as a yoga instructor or typesetter).

In addition, you must be of legal age and provide proof that you are responsible for covering the costs of the apartment on your own.

You can find everything you need to know about housing assistance in this article: How do I apply for housing assistance?

Where can I apply for rent assistance as an apprentice?

The good news is: Under certain conditions, as an apprentice, you can apply to the local government office for additional rent subsidies, especially if you're under 25 and can no longer live with your parents (e.g., because of the distance to your training site).

Rent Assistance Checklist:

  • You are receiving BAB or BAB has been rejected because your income is too high.
  • The BAB rent allowance does not cover your heating and rent costs.
  • You no longer live at home.
  • Before you moved out of your parents' home, you applied for a rent subsidy from the office responsible for ALG II and received permission to move out.
  • Your apartment is reasonable in terms of size and price. Otherwise, you will only receive the rent subsidy that corresponds to a reasonable apartment.

When will I receive a housing allowance?

If you are under 25 years old and no longer live with your parents, you may be eligible for a housing allowance only if it would be unreasonable for you to move back in with them.

This applies, for example, if your place of training is far away or if there are serious social reasons justifying your move.
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The "Hidden" Fixed Costs

In addition to rent, there are costs that many people underestimate:

  • Electricity & Internet: Look specifically for bundled plans, but pay attention to the contract terms (often 24 months).
  • Broadcasting License Fee (GEZ): It amounts to 18.36 euros per household. Important: If you receive BAföG or BAB, you can apply for an exemption! In a shared apartment, only one person has to pay—if everyone is exempt, no one pays.
  • Insurance: Personal liability insurance is a must. Check to see if you're still covered under your parents' family insurance policy.
  • Transportation: Don't forget the cost of the monthly pass or your car.

Application for exemption from the broadcasting fee

Other costs you should expect

In addition to rental costs, there are other costs that you should take into account in your financial planning.

For example for:

  • Furniture, home furnishings, and items such as pans, towels, glasses, and hair dryers
  • Internet and cell phone costs
  • Costs for groceries and other items such as contact lenses, clothing, and haircuts

To get a good overview of what’s known as the cost of living—the additional monthly expenses on top of rent and other costs—it’s a good idea to keep some kind of household budget .

Furnishing Your First Apartment in a Sustainable and Affordable Way

Your first apartment doesn't have to be a catalog home.

  • Secondhand: You can find affordable furniture and kitchenware (pans, glasses, etc.) on kleinanzeigen.de, at flea markets, or in thrift stores. With a little creativity, you can even give bulky trash items a sustainable new lease on life.
  • Set priorities: Think carefully about what you need right away and what can wait.

Keep an eye on costs with a budget book

To avoid ending up in the red at the end of the month, a household budget book is essential—whether it’s the traditional paper version or an app (e.g., “Mein Haushaltsbuch” or “Moneon Haushaltsbuch”).

If you track your spending on groceries, leisure activities, and subscriptions, you'll automatically save money.

Bonus Tip for Filing Your Tax Return: Even if you're an apprentice or a student, it's worth filing a tax return. Travel expenses and work equipment (laptop, tablet) can often be claimed as tax deductions.

What do I need to keep in mind after moving?

As soon as you move, you must update your registration with the Residents' Registration Office () . You generally have two weeks to do so. If you forget, you risk a fine of up to 1,000 euros.

​​​​​​​Income and Budget Counseling

As a comprehensive EAP provider, pme Familienservice offers Familienservice in all situations—from psychosocial counseling and leadership development to income and budget counseling.

If you want to empower your employees in the long term, learn more here about the services offered by pme Familienservice how we can provide personalized support.
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"With heart and mind": Child day care congress 2023

Child day care is an important pillar of childcare. We have been promoting the quality of this form of childcare for many years, including with the annual childcare congress "With heart and mind".

In 2023, we celebrated the 15th anniversary of our daycare congress "With heart and mind" at Münster. With this excellent educational format for childminders, pme is committed to providing training in the field of childcare, which is an important pillar in the childcare landscape across Germany and a permanent fixture in our placement business. Thanks to well-qualified caregivers, we offer our customers childcare at a high level. 

We recognized early on how important it is to invest in the (further) training of our caregivers. That's why we offer caregivers who are registered with pme the following every year free further training formats free of charge. Daycare parents who are not registered with us can also take part in the daycare congress "With heart and mind". In this way, we have been making an important contribution to quality assurance in childcare for 15 years. 


 

Business development in Münster - networking and new work

The 15th Child Day Care Congress "With Heart and Mind" was dedicated to the topic "Business Model Child Day Care". Introductory words of welcome from Alexa Ahmad, CEO of pme, and Bettina Konrath, Chairwoman of the Landesverband NRW e.V., made it clear how important networking and exchange are for child day care and how New Work also plays an important role here. With an inspiring keynote on the topic of business development, Annette Lang, Managing Director of "Vernetzt geht's weiter", gave the childminders ideas on how to further develop and strengthen their childcare business. 

Nicola Schmidt, science journalist and bestselling author as well as founder and managing director of Artgerecht GmbH, provided impetus for species-appropriate pedagogy with her presentation and said about the Child Daycare Congress 2023: "It was a very nice congress. Although I was 'only' there online, I felt like I was 'in the thick of it'! Thank you for the great organization and the wonderful feedback!" 


 

Inge Losch-Engler, pedagogue and Federal Chairwoman of the Bundesverband für Kindertagespflege e.V., expressed her sincere thanks for the invitation to the congress: 

"I am always happy to talk to the childminders from the different federal states. The childminders do a wonderful job, and I thank them for that."

We say THANK YOU and look to the future

After 15 successful years of congresses, we would also like to thank our pme congress team and look forward to seeing how the format will adapt over time . What is certain is that we will continue to focus on training and promoting exchange among caregivers.

And we also want to develop further. That is why we have decided not to hold a live congress at a national level in 2024, but to strengthen cooperation in the regions. That's why we will be offering networking events in the regions, for exchange, further training and networking.

However, there will continue to be an online offering at federal level in the form of our online training courses (formerly teleacademies). You will soon receive specific information on how the qualification of caregivers at pme will continue.


 

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